Pity parties are best thrown ALONE.

It's time to rant. I am so tired of "poor pitiful me" people on dating sites. Do you really think you are going to attract someone with a headline like "No one wants me" or "I'm just a lonely cast away." You're right, you are. No one wants someone who uses pity as a means of manipulation. Gain some self respect. I understand being insecure, trust me. I know what it's like to feel like you're always on the down and out side of relationships. But despite all my own vices, you think I show any of them to a man? Especially on the internet? Hell no. I NEVER want someone to give me attention based on pity. I want to attract someone because they are interested in me, not because they feel sorry for me. I had a guy message me on POF saying I should give him a chance because no one else would. Great idea, tell me no one else wants you because there's something wrong with all of them. It couldn't possibly be because they're all afraid, Mr Lonely, that you sit at home listening to Patsy Cline whilst bathing in a pool of your own blood of sorrow and self mutilation. Get the point? I already get creeped out by a lot of online dating. You Debbie Downers just make it worse. Don't get me wrong, I think POF is a pretty cool way to meet people. I would just like to inform you psycho self haters to do the world a favor: jump or man up. No one is perfect and EVERYONE has insecurities. You should broadcast your strengths not your inability to productively socialize.