I truly do not understand cheating. Recently, I have been the target of several guys in "serious" relationships trying to mack on me. WHAT?! There are few absolute truths in the world. Let me share one: If he will cheat on her with you, he WILL cheat on you. Why in the hell would I willingly be a part of an affair. No one deserves to be cheated on and I'll be damned if I will be the other woman.
I don't believe nor understand it for several reasons. First of all, why cheat? If you're not happy in your current relationship GET OUT OF IT. Why must people have their cake and eat it too. I can not wrap my brain around this concept. I have never even had the desire to cheat but let's say for argument's sake I have. I would break up with the person and pursue other people. Secondly, i get so tired of hearing "but I love her." NO YOU DO NOT. If you did you would not cheat on her. It's that simple. I have had the world's most horrific boyfriends and I still never swayed. I'm also sick of hearing, "I have needs and she isn't meeting them." Once again, break up with her. I'm sorry but if she's holding out on you and sex is your primary objective in the relationship, you'll be doing both of you a favor by ending it.
In conclusion dear unfaithful males, you could not have insulted me any greater than by assuming my moral standards are that low. P.S. I hope you get syphilis.
If I may, sometimes you need to look at things from a man's point of view. They are quite deceptive creatures. Maybe it's not because they don't want to be with you, maybe it's that they see you as a "booty call", so to speak. I don't understand male logic anymore than you do. But they are a bit off-set in the mind, obviously. Besides, it's not like everybody's a saint, or at least pretends they are.
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